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Signing your estate plan is a big milestone. But once the pen is down, many people tuck their documents into a drawer or a safe deposit box and never think about them again. A plan that no one can find, or that no one knows exists, can fail at exactly the moment you need it most. Here is what we recommend doing after you sign. Make Sure Your Agent Has a Copy of Your Power of Attorney Your durable power of attorney names an agent to handle financial matters if you cannot. This person may need to pay your mortgage, access your accounts, file taxes, manage your business, or deal with an insurance company while you are hospitalized or incapacitated. Emergencies rarely give anyone time to search for paperwork. If your only original is locked in a safe deposit box, your agent may not be able to get to it, and banks and other institutions will not act without seeing the document. Consider these practical steps: Give your agent a complete copy now, not later. Washington law generally treats a photocopy or electronic copy of a power of attorney the same as the original, though individual institutions can still be cautious. Tell your agent where the original is stored and how to retrieve it. Walk through what your agent will actually be asked to do, and introduce them to your financial institutions if that makes sense. Ask your agent to keep the document somewhere accessible, such as a secure digital folder as well as a physical copy. Remember that your agent cannot use a document they do not know about. If your power of attorney is written to take effect only upon incapacity, your agent should also know what proof of incapacity will be needed, so they are not scrambling during a crisis. Get Your Health Care Directive to the People and Places That Need It Your health care directive, sometimes called a living will, and your health care power of attorney work together to speak for you when you cannot. They are only useful if the right people can produce them quickly. Give a copy to your health care agent and any alternate agents. Give a copy to your primary care physician and ask that it be added to your medical record. If you see specialists regularly, give them a copy as well. Ask your hospital system whether it can store your directive in its electronic records, so it is available if you are admitted. Keep a copy somewhere easy to find at home, not buried in a filing cabinet. If you have a serious or advanced illness, talk with your provider about whether a POLST form is appropriate. A POLST is a separate medical order, not a substitute for your directive. This matters especially if the person you trust most is not your legal next of kin. Washington’s default rules for who can make health care decisions for someone who lacks capacity prioritize a spouse or state-registered domestic partner, then adult children, parents, and adult siblings. Unmarried partners, chosen family, and close friends are not on that list. For many of our queer, ethically non-monogamous, and blended-family clients, a signed directive with a copy in the right hands is what makes sure your actual decision-maker is recognized at the bedside. Don’t Keep Your Estate Plan a Secret In the movies, the family gathers in a lawyer’s office, the will is read aloud, someone gasps, and the arguing begins. It makes for good drama and a terrible way to run a family. Many of us value our privacy, and that is understandable. But when it comes to your estate plan, secrecy tends to create the very problems people hope to avoid. Most clients tell us they want to keep things simple and leave as little burden as possible. A plan nobody knows about does the opposite. When loved ones learn your decisions for the first time during a crisis or after a death, surprise can feel like hurt, and hurt can turn into disputes. People who know in advance what you decided and why are far less likely to feel blindsided. The people you name need to know they have been named Anyone you have chosen as your agent, health care agent, personal representative, or trustee is taking on real responsibility. Washington’s probate and trust administration processes carry deadlines, duties, and potential personal liability, and it is not fair to hand someone that role for the first time while they are grieving. Tell them now, ask whether they are willing, and let them ask questions. It is much better to learn that your first choice is unwilling while you can still change your documents. You can share the plan without sharing the numbers Telling your family about your plan does not mean opening your financial statements. You can keep account balances and asset values private while still sharing what matters. For example: A child who has worked in the family business should know whether they are expected to take it over, buy out siblings, or sell. A child who is planning a family or a move should know whether the family home is meant to pass to them, be sold, or stay in a trust. A partner, stepchild, or friend who is receiving something should hear it from you, not from a document. Explain unequal or unexpected choices Perhaps one child has needed more financial help over the years and you plan to even things out, or you are leaving a gift to a friend, a charity, or a partner you never married. If your family learns about these decisions only after you are gone, they will fill in the reasons themselves, and the story they tell is often a painful one, such as “Mom must have loved my sister more.” Siblings who might have understood your thinking can end up estranged. You do not have to justify your choices to everyone, but a few honest sentences from you now can protect relationships for decades. A Quick After-Signing Checklist Store your originals safely and tell your agent where they are. Give copies of your power of attorney and health care directive to your agents. Give your health care directive to your doctors. Let everyone you have named know about their role. Update beneficiary designations and transfer-on-death registrations so they match your plan. Fund any trusts you have established. Keep a list of accounts, contacts, and advisors in a place your agent can find. Plan to review your documents after major life changes, such as marriage, divorce, a birth or adoption, a move, a new business, or a significant change in assets. Washington’s estate tax exemption and federal rules change over time, so a periodic check-in is worthwhile. We’re Here to Help An estate plan is a gift to the people you love, but only if they can find it and use it. If you have completed your plan with us and want help with next steps, or if you have older documents that need a fresh look, please reach out. You can call Limitless Law at 360- 685-0145 or click here to learn more. This article is for general informational purposes and is not legal advice. Every situation is different, so please consult an attorney about your specific circumstances.